[quote name='bvharris']Nothing in your post required my input. I was out all afternoon yesterday and by the time I got home you'd posted his PMs saying he could play Sunday and that you were hoping for better communication. Did you want me to chime in with "yes, people should do their best to reply to PMs in a timely fashion"? I assume that goes without saying at this point. Not every post in this thread requires a response from me, believe it or not I have a busy weekend as well.[/QUOTE]
I'm going to come along and add to this as well.
Here's your post. Just in case you a) forgot it or B) decide to edit it in your favor.
PM'd damailman yesterday about our game. Haven't heard anything back. My big days of availability are Friday and Saturday. I'll have some time tomorrow, but much more limited. Not that the game really matters, but I don't want to waste my time either.
You posted in the thread stating that you pm'ed the dude, hadn't heard back, and you listed your availability. Not once did you call out for help, or mention that there's a good chance you'll need a sub, or anything that says "HEY BV/FERO, I NEEED YOUR HEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEELP"
In the last month we've probably seen 50-60 of the above type posts. Just in case the person you're playing doesn't see his pm box, he'll hopefully see the thread.
It's absolutely most certainly not on bv or me to hold your hand to get the game completed.
UNLESS YOU POST HERE or ..hey...send a pm... and SAY THAT YOU NEED HELP.
Had you came in today and said, "hey, bv/fero...i'm having trouble getting this game scheduled, he hasn't responded in 48 hours and i might have a spot of spare time at "xx:xx" time today....but other than that....i can't play".... I'm absolutely certain bv would have come back with a reply along the following: "hey so and so, can you sub at "xx:xx" time....."
And everyone would be happy.
but No. you've once again taken the chance to badmouth bvharris for absolutely no reason. Who are you? Someone important enough to believe that everything they post/say should be met with recognition on your behalf? Should he acknowledge in this thread everytime you make a post with "Yes, N8, i acknowledge the fact that you made a post"
Frankly, the bashing bv shit is getting old. You posted the following:
I mean, I'm working around a wife, a baby, family responsibilities, running other leagues, etc. What's his excuse?
This post leads me to believe you're a grown man. Can we please try to act like grown-up's here?